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To give or not to give
chuvaness
That's the decision we try to make when we encounter beggars here or abroad.
They come in all forms: blind, disfigured, children, moms with babies, children carrying babies, healthy or unhealthy looking.
Some can look really pathetic. I used to see beggars on top of the walkway in Bangkok under scorching heat, with their palms folded in prayer. In Singapore they play musical instruments in the underground walkway. In Manila they approach your car near the traffic light.
Every beggar touches me in some way. They make me feel bad and wonder if it's worth it to open my bag or no.

The one beggar I will never forget was at Jatujak market in Bangkok. It was a middle-aged corpulent woman—a burn victim with no hair, no ears, no nose, no eyes—sitting on a wheelchair with a healthy partner/pusher that was using her as a begging tool.
The beggar munched greedily on a piece of juicy fruit that was dribbling down her chin.
You could imagine that the sense of taste was the only thing that could give her pleasure at that point, while sitting in that heat.

That kind of beggar, you don't just walk away. After giving her alms, I took a couple of photos, just because I take photos of anything I want to remember.
Jeroen scolded me. "Stop it. You can get beaten up doing that," he warned.

The following photos come from a Chinese website.
It shows a pair of beggars—a woman begging for a supposedly dying man.
A photographer follows them on the street, where the couple walks away when the coast is clear. They move to another location to beg, chill or count money and have a snack.
It will make you think about the next beggars you will encounter.

Here is a sight you might see while traveling
beggar

beggar

No more people. I think we're done here.
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Hey, what the hell is that? Let's go!
beggar

Downstairs...
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Act II
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Let's count the money
beggar

I think we have enough
beggar

Moving along...
beggar

I'm starving
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Let's eat
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Let's take this to go
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I remember seeing a beggar on the street my in my grandfather's hometown in China two years ago.(where I'll be off to in a few days.) I remember this girl writing a short note on the pavement in Chinese saying something like how her "yeye" ("grandfather") needed some money. she was kneeling and bowing to each and every one who was crossing so they gave her loose change. I think I remember seeing a third or half of her cup filled with coins!

Makes me think what happened to her now...

speaking of Fil-Chi communities, i had a trip back too a few months back when we went to check the new universities by coach around the island city. the hostess informed us to never consider anymore giving alms to the city beggars, as the city officials had been monitoring them and discovered these "beggars" apparently has resorted to pretending in order for them to acquire new or old condo units without having to go to work.

we get the same kind of beggars here in the U.S... out here, the trick to know when to give or not is to look at their shoes. do they have any? or are they wearing brand new Nikes under those dirty clothes? usually they're wearing pretty nice Nikes.

In Cubao, around 10 or 12 years ago, nakapila ako dun sa Antipolo jeepney terminal. A pair of kids, isang teen and isang bata, approached me to say that wala silang pamasahe pauwi.

"Saan ba kayo nakatira?"

"Sa Bulacan po."

"Magkano pamasahe niyo?"

"P35 po, kada tao."

I was only a college student back then and my allowance was P100 a day. I had extra money (nag-iipon ako for a dress) but I gave the kids P100 kasi "Ayan, para makauwi na kayo. Yung sobra, ibili niyo ng tinapay." So feeling generous ako, Cecile. I felt really good!

The next night, nasa SM Makati naman ako. Guess kung sino lumapit sa akin??? Yung dalawang bata! I recognized the teen kasi I talked to her and made sure she tucked the money in her pocket the previous night. I said, "Oy, diba kayo yung nasa Cubao? Sabi mo taga-Bulacan kayo. Bakit ngayon Pampanga na?"

Those kids didn't even reply. They ran. Fast! And me? I just felt sad and stolen from. And stupid.

there's this fat little boy who begs near Shaw Boulevard. He tells you, birthday ko po ngayon, so I give him money. Weeks later I see him again. He says, birthday ko po ngayon... I laugh.
a few weeks later, I see him again, so I roll down my window and say, "ano birthday mo ulit ngayon?" This time he laughs and runs away.
healthy siya ha!

never feel guilty about not giving to beggars you encounter - they're not your responsibility.. they are the government's.. and besides the majority that you see are probably part of a syndicate.. try to follow where these beggars go to at the end of the day.. i'll bet in some underworld colony where the lame can actually walk and the blind can see

i wish some TV show would follow them talaga, like Imbestigador

Meron din Miss C, on one of the footbridges along Commonwealth. His intestines are outside of his body, as in naka-plastic pa. People give him money of course, yun pala, the "intestines" inside the plastic are tomatoes. Sobra na.

At the Quezon Avenue station of the MRT, meron naman old lady wearing glasses holding up a sign saying, "Please give me money for the laser of my eyes." I don't see anyone giving her money though.

nasusuka ako sa intestines! buti na lang fake

Honest beggars in San Francisco hehehe.

linnyann

2010-04-08 06:06 pm (UTC)

I took these photos during a 2 day lakwatsa in San Francisco last year ng August.

08.07.09 . He needs a beer. :)

08.07.09 . Spare change for weed.

Re: Honest beggars in San Francisco hehehe.

chuvaness

2010-04-08 06:15 pm (UTC)

hilarious! did they get any?

There's a lot of those in New York too. NY Post even made a main feature report on this plus several other TV channels. One beggar they covered was a healthy woman who goes shopping at Macy's and lives in the Upper East Side. Every morning she'd go to a public restroom and changed into a "beggar costume" complete with all the shebang---ripped blanket, tattered jeans, everything...Then she positions herself at streets near subways or in subway stations during the winter. At the end of the day, she goes to change into normal clothes and counts her money and goes back to her 2 bedroom Manhattan apartment. She admits she can earn between $70 to $200 a day.

http://www.ilovehateamerica.com

Buti pa sila nag-eefort mag dress up like real beggars . I have a lot of personal encounters dito sa NY lalo na sa subway na hindi convincing ang get-up, like onetime meron nagbe-beg, para daw sa kanyang imaginary anak na kailangan daw ng panggamot pero freshly manicured ang nails with matching fake gold hoop earrings and that smug attitude typical sa mga New Yorkers. Pero infainess gusto ko yung mga panhandlers sa subway na musicians and dancers, pwedeng na mag-held nang American Idol NY subway auditions, I'm sure maraming papasa.

Brother Sharp: Beggar Hailed Most Handsome, Fashionable

iperoyale

2010-04-08 09:19 pm (UTC)

http://www.chinasmack.com/2010/pictures/chinese-beggar-becomes-famous-online.html



Weird that most news/stories I hear from China recently is about beggars. Just like this cool looking beggar.

Re: Brother Sharp: Beggar Hailed Most Handsome, Fashionable

newg_auq

2010-04-09 03:16 am (UTC)

Horray for Brother Sharp!

here in manila, i try to give the beggars biscuits or food nalang instead of money. surprisingly, sobrang appreciate nila palagi. kahit small pack lang. once though i didn't have any food on me and, while i was getting into the car pa lang, this old woman beggar suddenly appeared and blocked my car door para di ko masara. when i gave her some money, she still wouldn't budge. gusto niya kasi P100 daw bigay ko. what also bothers me is when beggars boldly approach diners INSIDE a restaurant to beg for money. yung they go from table to table asking for money for hospital bills or pamasahe. or beggars who won't take no for an answer and will stubbornly harass you until the traffic light turns green.


I used to give to most beggars but ever since you posted that story of the kid who was kidnapped from a mall who the cops found begging for money in a market the following day, I stopped giving money to beggars.

Ms C:

Most if not all beggars within Bangkok belongs to the Mafia. I always stayed in an apartment block in Silom whenever I'm in Bangkok very close to Molly Malones Irish Pub (you know cold cold beer and a steak). And theres this smiling beggar with nice teeth I always give my coins to. I was told he belongs to the Mafia and that's when I noticed no local would give and except newbies like moi and some tourists.

But this Farang Beggar is so offensive I told him off one day. (didn't have pic but I found his pic)

http://www.gregtodiffer.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/farang-beggar.jpg

Re: the FARANG beggar

chuvaness

2010-04-09 12:26 am (UTC)

ay, parang I've seen that in Bangkok too. weird.

its their conscience not mine

urbanmudra

2010-04-09 12:29 am (UTC)

even though there is a law prohibiting giving alms, i give. conscience na lang ng beggar if his legit or fakers. i usually give food instead of money cause i always stash packs of skyflakes in my bag (i have low blood sugar).

Ms. C, I thought of you when I saw a guy (father) and this girl around 10-12 years old on our way to Timbaland's concert. It was around 9pm along Makati Ave when I saw the guy carried the sleeping girl on his back in a sling tapos their belongings in trash bags. I wanted to 'rescue' them like what you did with the security guard. But I don't think my husband would let them sleep at our house. My mind was on the father and daughter when JT came out of the stage. I wanted to go back to Makati Ave right after the concert. But unfortunately, I fell asleep on the way home. I wanted to contact you sana if you know someone from DSWD to rescue them.(pero nahihiya ako) Every night I feel this nagging pain na I could have done something for them. All I can do now is pray for their safety.

Re: its their conscience not mine

chuvaness

2010-04-09 12:52 am (UTC)

please don't forget I knew the security guard personally. you don't know these people, so you did the right thing, you cannot take them home. very scary :)

Why is it that if you knock your car window twice, these beggars know that you're not going to give them any money? Parang code siya cause they know that you know na they're not really beggars but part of a syndicate.

I know the woman you refer to in Jatujak market. I lived in Thailand for a few years and I saw here every single time I was at the weekend market. My Thai friends said never to give to any beggar in Bangkok because a syndicate is behind all of them.

isn't she the most kawawa thing you ever saw? death would've been kinder

i once saw a beggar in paris. she was a skinny french woman in a disheveled business suit surrounded by a small pile of her clothes and house things. she was holding a sign that a french-speaking friend translated as "help me, i lost my job and apartment, i need a place to stay".

but what really got me was that sobra siyang humahagulgol. as in yung feeling mo hihikain na sa sobrang kaiiyak. we were parked in front of her for almost an hour and she never stopped crying. she looked so desperate :(

Riff Raff Street Rat I Don't Buy That.....

cali_maki

2010-04-09 04:38 am (UTC)

I dont want to sound mean but...as much as possible I don't give especially street beggars, give one and they multiply faster than gremlins. Some are schemers while some are really homeless. I tend to give to the older bracket like way too old to work and maybe abandoned by family bracket. Yun mga bata na maliliit bigyan mo ng piso ibabato pa sayo. so there goes my sympathy naubos na sa mga abusado. Para mas safe sa mga organizations nalang kesa yun mga nasa kalye dahil mamihasa sila na isipin na pwede silang mabuhay gamit ang "manipulation" at "awa" ng mga tao.

Re: Riff Raff Street Rat I Don't Buy That.....

chuvaness

2010-04-09 06:01 am (UTC)

you don't sound mean at all


My brother almost got into a fight with a beggar. Back in college, whenever he's out daw for his yosi break, he saw this guy begging for money so he could go back home. One day he decided to approach him. He asked daw 'San ka ba nakatira?' Beggar, 'Ay, malayo po doooon pa' (with matching turo ng lips). My brother replied, 'Saan nga eh? Saan doon? Ihahatid na kita para wag ka ng manghingi ng pera dito araw araw'. The beggar daw cursed him in Tagalog and my brother cursed him back and said something like, ikaw na nga tutulungan ko minumura mo pa ako. Well, obviously he didn't need money to go back home.

i hate some beggars that bring their child sa streets...i don't know if ill give or not kasi alam mo bukas andyan pa rin naman sila...sana lang lumaki na ung bata para di na mabuhat

Mas madame na ngayon ang rumaraket na kunwari walang pamasahe pauwi. mostly, mag ina yung mga gnun, manghihingi ng pamasahe.
anyway, sa taft, may pulubi dun named jenny. sya na ata pina ka cool na tao dun HAHAHAHA as in kilala nya lahata at alam nya lht ng nangyayari sa CSB and DLSU. Everytime na may makaksalubong sya, prng automatic na bibigyan. Before may group of students from CSB ata na sinundan si jenny, then nalaman before i mean 8 or 5 years ago ang kinikita nya sa isang araw ay mahigit 1k. as in grabe, mas malaki pa pera nya sa allowance nmen per day. :)))

i experienced one time, namura ako ng isang street kid. as in malakas na "ta@*?!a mo"! i told her kasi sorry, wala akong barya. which is the truth cause i normally give kahit feeling ko pa ngang fake because i get konsensya. after that, i'm really careful in choosing who i will give alms to.

graveh naman to!!! tsk tsk... can i repost this? thanks!

of course!

I'm supportive of anti-mendicant laws, but I have to admit I give to the elderly on the streets as well.

Yung nanghihingi ng pamasahe pauwi, I always answer, "Kung hindi ka makakauwi, wag kang aalis ng bahay." Raket talaga yon.

I once gave 1 peso to a boy on North Avenue. He continued knocking and I waved my hand to indicate na "wala na". He responded by throwing a rock through my rear window. I went to the nearest precinct to report it, the police came with me and rounded up all the beggars that evening. I don't know what happened after that. For all I know they're still there.

I've been living in London for almost 4 months now and with the downturn, there are more beggars. I remember as student (a few years ago) when I lived in Chelsea, there was this old guy who was begging near a convenience store. someone gave him 2 pounds and he quickly bought himself a beer.
kung hindi ka ba maiinis.

totoo yung sinabi ng isang reader to look at their shoes. may beggars sa Earl's court na new nike air force pa ung suot nya (old guy with crutches), same with a fat woman who's begging beside Burger King. to think na mahal ang shoes dito (times 2 ng US price).

also, the rise of syndicates, maybe from Eastern Europe, pero decent ung suot nila, with a pram for their babies. begging in Oxford Street, Knightsbridge, Bond Street, etc.
and the common theme is to beg near ATM's. as if naman you'll give them 10 pounds.

so what I did for lent is to give money to the church (they have different slots- poor, church, Cafod, etc.) so that I know where my hard-earned money goes).

in Manila, I live near Greenhills (Mariposa) and dumadami ang beggars pag malapit na ang Christmas. one time I was driving and seated beside me is our helper, sabi ko, open the glove box at may biscuits dyan. yun nlg kaysa pera. grabe! isa lang ung lumapit tapos they swarmed like bees, tapos naubos na ung biscuits and some felt bad dahil hindi sila nabigyan. the gull!

its better to give it to charity para mas maganda ung distribution of funds or kahit simpleng outreach like have a party with these kids or something. meron din ung lalapit sa iyo na bata, asking for money around GH, sabi ko where are your parents? hindi makasagot. sabi ko, responsibility ka ng parents mo, not me. umalis.

the people who abuse the system.

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