Dolly writes:
MAEGAN Aguilar is fuming mad at Kjwan vocalist Marc Abaya.
“When I met Marc last April, we hit it off instantly,” Maegan says. “I thought I found the best guy friend ever but I was deceived. I regret making him a part of my life. He tore me to pieces and pretended I didn’t exist.”
Maegan groped in the dark because, after getting too close too soon, Marc just suddenly ignored her.
Then she found out that Marc added her husband, Shawn, (Eicholz, who’s based in the United States) to his Facebook contacts and forwarded to him all the private e-mail she sent to Marc.
“Shawn is going through emotional trauma,” Maegan sighs. “Our trust is broken. If it were not for our son Zane, he would have left me in a heartbeat. But I’m glad that he believes I’m not entirely to blame. Marc was almost successful in ruining my marriage.”
My heart goes out to Maegan because I know how she goes the extra mile for her friends. Sad that the friendship of these two singers has hit a sour note. But what matters now is that Maegan and Shawn will keep the music playing.
What's really sad is the blog, formerly at http://donottrustmarcabaya.blogspot.c
However, Maegan's Friendster profile is still up and reads:

If your Friendster pic looks like that, what will your husband think?
From what I can recall, the two met, hit it off and started texting. It was implied that the texting led to more than just friendship. After three weeks Marc stopped communicating with Maegan. She became angry and/or depressed, ran to his house to confront him and went berserk. (stalker much?)
Supposedly she has not heard from him.
Or has she? Cause the blog mysteriously disappeared.
Maegan's husband is based in Texas, while she is in Manila with a beautiful baby called Zane.
Maegan blames Marc for almost destroying her marriage. It takes two to tango?
Or maybe the blog should've been called "donotfallinlovewithmarcabayawhileyourhu
I'm of the belief that a married man or woman cannot be friends or best friends with the opposite sex. That's one of the things Father Reuter told me and Jeroen before we got married.
"Do not spend time alone with the opposite sex."
And that's why I'm surrounded by gay men and "gay" women. I can count the number of straight male friends I have with one hand and we're not even close.
Father also said husband and wife cannot be separated, not by bed, bedroom or country. Physical distance is a recipe for disaster.
But I digress... I'm so sad! We live for shit like this!! Anyone save a PDF?










2009-06-22 06:00 pm (UTC)
2009-06-22 06:01 pm (UTC)
2009-06-22 06:12 pm (UTC)
Note to self: don't ask aguilar about abaya
2009-06-22 06:20 pm (UTC)
2009-06-22 06:19 pm (UTC)
Chuva, you're so funny!
Why is she blogging about her infidelity
2009-06-22 06:45 pm (UTC)
2009-06-22 07:57 pm (UTC)
i might just put it in my favorites list instead
2009-06-22 08:26 pm (UTC)
But I thought Marc was dating Monica Llamas?
not anymore
2009-06-22 11:08 pm (UTC)
monica llamas is out of the picture. they were engaged i think.
thanks ms chuvaness for the chika! after a cold cold summer here in the arctic!
2009-06-22 08:28 pm (UTC)
I read 27 comments on that blog and while there were the supportive friends and family, 80% of the comments were blaming her, mostly for making this public and that like you also said, it takes two to tango. Playing the blame game kaya siya?
than a woman scorned..
2009-06-22 09:09 pm (UTC)
regarding her cheating ways, i agree that it takes 2 to tango, but to rat on the girl you're cheating with to the husband after you've had your fun? low blow.
Re: than a woman scorned..
2009-06-23 01:33 am (UTC)
"donotfallinlovewithmarcabayawhileyourhusbandisintexas.blogspot.com"
2009-06-22 09:41 pm (UTC)
2009-06-23 12:51 am (UTC)
That sentence is SO wrong. LOL. Hit it off pala, saan part ba siya na-hit?
whistleblower?..
2009-06-23 12:55 am (UTC)
Re: whistleblower?..
2009-06-23 06:09 am (UTC)
2009-06-23 01:05 am (UTC)
2009-06-23 01:27 am (UTC)
sayang!
2009-06-23 01:36 am (UTC)
nangaliwa na nga pinangandalakan pa. and even if it was purely innocent, bakit ganun na lang sya mag-react when she got the cold shoulder? someone doesn't want to be friends with you? big deal, get over it.
2009-06-23 01:40 am (UTC)
2009-06-23 01:56 am (UTC)
2009-06-23 02:04 am (UTC)
lady gaga
2009-06-23 02:25 am (UTC)
i say lady gaga. she needs to talk to father reuter. if i were her husband, id call it quits. mejo psycho.
Re: lady gaga
2009-06-23 06:14 am (UTC)
2009-06-23 02:34 am (UTC)
2009-06-23 02:57 am (UTC)
yikes
2009-06-23 03:08 am (UTC)
SMIRK
2009-06-23 03:48 am (UTC)
She probably fell in love while the guy was just being "friendly" and when he started avoiding her because he doesn't really wanna get involved with a married woman... she felt betrayed. kaloka ito.
Pag kase may anak dapat sa anak na lang binubuhos panahon....LOL on "anak ba't ka nagkaganyan"
:)
2009-06-23 04:15 am (UTC)
Re: :)
2009-06-23 04:23 am (UTC)
gorell-esque.
2009-06-23 05:29 am (UTC)
"I'm of the belief that a married man or woman cannot be friends or best friends with the opposite sex. That's one of the things Father Reuter told me and Jeroen before we got married."
Can we call Marc Abaya a predator now?
Re: gorell-esque.
2009-06-23 05:32 am (UTC)
Ewwwwww
2009-06-23 06:05 am (UTC)
I just don't understand why she would put up a blog that would make her look like a rejected slut...
ending
2009-06-23 07:05 am (UTC)
kindly post if you hear the "real story" of what happened after. i want to know the ending. im thinking of the ff scenarios:
1. marc was just being friendly and when he noticed that megan was crossing the line of friendship, he wanted nothing to do with her. to make her stop, he forwarded her messages to her husband so he can make her stop stalking him.
2. they had a fling, when he had his fun and got tired of megan, he dropped her like a hot potato. she shocks him by being a stalker, going so far as visiting his house. he didn't know what to do, so he forwarded all her messages to her husband so his husband would be the one to put a leash on megan. megan strikes back.
3. he's a douchebag, couldnt care less about her and didn't think his actions of ratting on his "kalaguyo" would result into a hell hath no fury bonanza. he apologizes, megan finally deletes her blogpost.
or
4. both of them were at fault, both knew the other was married, they didn't care, they have a fling, girl falls in love, guy wants out, girl stalks, guy gets angry and retaliates by forwarding letters to husband.
hmmmn
so bitter
2009-06-23 08:05 am (UTC)
2009-06-23 09:15 am (UTC)
Winner ang profile pic sa friendster ha (people still use friendster?!). What would her husband think of that? Or perhaps the husband is still oblivious?
Makes me wonder what was in their email correspondences that made this woman furious.
sa fezbook din!
2009-06-23 12:50 pm (UTC)