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[info]chuvaness
Earlier this evening, Grace were I were tripping on a blog called "Do Not Trust Marc Abaya" which was mentioned in Dolly Anne's column.

Dolly writes:
MAEGAN Aguilar is fuming mad at Kjwan vocalist Marc Abaya.
“When I met Marc last April, we hit it off instantly,” Maegan says. “I thought I found the best guy friend ever but I was deceived. I regret making him a part of my life. He tore me to pieces and pretended I didn’t exist.”
Maegan groped in the dark because, after getting too close too soon, Marc just suddenly ignored her.
Then she found out that Marc added her husband, Shawn, (Eicholz, who’s based in the United States) to his Facebook contacts and forwarded to him all the private e-mail she sent to Marc.
“Shawn is going through emotional trauma,” Maegan sighs. “Our trust is broken. If it were not for our son Zane, he would have left me in a heartbeat. But I’m glad that he believes I’m not entirely to blame. Marc was almost successful in ruining my marriage.”
My heart goes out to Maegan because I know how she goes the extra mile for her friends. Sad that the friendship of these two singers has hit a sour note. But what matters now is that Maegan and Shawn will keep the music playing.


What's really sad is the blog, formerly at http://donottrustmarcabaya.blogspot.com has been deleted!!
However, Maegan's Friendster profile is still up and reads:

Picture 1

If your Friendster pic looks like that, what will your husband think?
From what I can recall, the two met, hit it off and started texting. It was implied that the texting led to more than just friendship. After three weeks Marc stopped communicating with Maegan. She became angry and/or depressed, ran to his house to confront him and went berserk. (stalker much?)
Supposedly she has not heard from him.
Or has she? Cause the blog mysteriously disappeared.

Maegan's husband is based in Texas, while she is in Manila with a beautiful baby called Zane.
Maegan blames Marc for almost destroying her marriage. It takes two to tango?
Or maybe the blog should've been called "donotfallinlovewithmarcabayawhileyourhusbandisintexas.blogspot.com"?

I'm of the belief that a married man or woman cannot be friends or best friends with the opposite sex. That's one of the things Father Reuter told me and Jeroen before we got married.
"Do not spend time alone with the opposite sex."
And that's why I'm surrounded by gay men and "gay" women. I can count the number of straight male friends I have with one hand and we're not even close.
Father also said husband and wife cannot be separated, not by bed, bedroom or country. Physical distance is a recipe for disaster.

But I digress... I'm so sad! We live for shit like this!! Anyone save a PDF?

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Father Reuter, bless you. I agree with you on that point, because I think it breeds jealousy, whether you can control your emotions or not.

O my. I was talkin to my fag hag just this afternoon about catching her gig next friday.

Note to self: don't ask aguilar about abaya

"But I digress... I'm so sad! We live for shit like this!! Anyone save a PDF?"

Chuva, you're so funny!

Why is she blogging about her infidelity

[info]njmanang

2009-06-22 06:45 pm (UTC)

Like you I read the blog last week from a the DollyC link. What I couldn't understand then was why was she mad. Because she got caught cheating? Cause the bf told the husband? and why blog about it, why would she want the whole world to know that? Am confused.

its hard to type donotfallinlovewithmarcabayawhileyourhusbandisintexas.blogspot.com on the address bar.
i might just put it in my favorites list instead

Cecile, your blog is like a shot of fresh blood to my sleepy body during these very lazy graveyard shifts :D

But I thought Marc was dating Monica Llamas?

marc is dating kat alano. saw them after the eheads concert. all lovey dovey.

monica llamas is out of the picture. they were engaged i think.


thanks ms chuvaness for the chika! after a cold cold summer here in the arctic!

I read about this from Dolly Ann's column then went to the blog and couldn't believe my eyes. After lunch I went to the blog and it was already removed. Removed ha, hindi deleted. Sino ang nagtanggal, blogger or yung blog author?

I read 27 comments on that blog and while there were the supportive friends and family, 80% of the comments were blaming her, mostly for making this public and that like you also said, it takes two to tango. Playing the blame game kaya siya?

than a woman scorned..

[info]shawiefan

2009-06-22 09:09 pm (UTC)

grabe. don't you just love the internet? now every douchebag can be exposed.

regarding her cheating ways, i agree that it takes 2 to tango, but to rat on the girl you're cheating with to the husband after you've had your fun? low blow.

Re: than a woman scorned..

[info]chuvaness

2009-06-23 01:33 am (UTC)

we don't know what motivated Marc to do that.

"donotfallinlovewithmarcabayawhileyourhusbandisintexas.blogspot.com"

[info]sweethopia

2009-06-22 09:41 pm (UTC)

lol.


“When I met Marc last April, we hit it off instantly,” Maegan says. “I thought I found the best guy friend ever but I was deceived. I regret making him a part of my life. He tore me to pieces and pretended I didn’t exist.”

That sentence is SO wrong. LOL. Hit it off pala, saan part ba siya na-hit?

aguilar doing a gorrell minus the $$$..

lol. mte

I know PDA but what is PDF?

...i had that blog open in my pc for most of yesterday afternoon. kept re-reading it and thinking 'ang shunga shunga!'she sounded so lovestruck in the first few sentences. told her friends she had a new best friend, 'sometimes they were totally happy just hanging out together,' the guy texted or called her every day and they wrote each other on facebook blah blah blah.

nangaliwa na nga pinangandalakan pa. and even if it was purely innocent, bakit ganun na lang sya mag-react when she got the cold shoulder? someone doesn't want to be friends with you? big deal, get over it.

I think I'll send this link to someone who rationalizes her closeness to a married man by hitching rides with him and just says "but it's just hitching" to the wife who confronted her. I hope she reads between the lines why I'm sending it and notes what Fr. Reuter advised. Thanks for the post, Cecile. So timely.

Mong must be laughing right now.

mong alcaraz?

i say lady gaga. she needs to talk to father reuter. if i were her husband, id call it quits. mejo psycho.


lady gaga is married? akala ko boyfriend pa lang nya

"anak, bakit ka nagkaganyan?"

it's one thing to lash out on somebody over the interweb. but on friendster? hohoho.

Her lines are funny just the same way I felt about Katrina ~ napapala ng mga taong naglalaro ng apoy.

She probably fell in love while the guy was just being "friendly" and when he started avoiding her because he doesn't really wanna get involved with a married woman... she felt betrayed. kaloka ito.

Pag kase may anak dapat sa anak na lang binubuhos panahon....LOL on "anak ba't ka nagkaganyan"

I think basta hate blog sya i-delete yan kaagad ng blogspot.


nope. there are many hate blogs that are still up.

Ms. C. I like what you said

"I'm of the belief that a married man or woman cannot be friends or best friends with the opposite sex. That's one of the things Father Reuter told me and Jeroen before we got married."

Can we call Marc Abaya a predator now?

well we don't know what really happened. a man or a woman can be a predator

She probably went crazy over Marc - that's why Marc sent those messages to the husband in texas.

I just don't understand why she would put up a blog that would make her look like a rejected slut...

hi cecille,

kindly post if you hear the "real story" of what happened after. i want to know the ending. im thinking of the ff scenarios:

1. marc was just being friendly and when he noticed that megan was crossing the line of friendship, he wanted nothing to do with her. to make her stop, he forwarded her messages to her husband so he can make her stop stalking him.

2. they had a fling, when he had his fun and got tired of megan, he dropped her like a hot potato. she shocks him by being a stalker, going so far as visiting his house. he didn't know what to do, so he forwarded all her messages to her husband so his husband would be the one to put a leash on megan. megan strikes back.

3. he's a douchebag, couldnt care less about her and didn't think his actions of ratting on his "kalaguyo" would result into a hell hath no fury bonanza. he apologizes, megan finally deletes her blogpost.

or

4. both of them were at fault, both knew the other was married, they didn't care, they have a fling, girl falls in love, guy wants out, girl stalks, guy gets angry and retaliates by forwarding letters to husband.

hmmmn

isn't megan's friendster out of line? isn't this an isolated event, or does marc abaya have a history of doing it to other people? megan, lunatic much? at dinawit pa pati ang family ni marc sa name-calling.

my thoughts exactly when i read dolly ann's column. i mean, WTH? it's like she exposed her infidelity to the world. She had me at "we hit it off instantly". Hello. It's like she shot herself in the foot.

Winner ang profile pic sa friendster ha (people still use friendster?!). What would her husband think of that? Or perhaps the husband is still oblivious?

Makes me wonder what was in their email correspondences that made this woman furious.

when i checked yesterday, she uses the same image as her profile pic in facebook. o di ba, di naman nya masyadong type ang marc??

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